Thank you for explaining the policy here to me. That is fine with me.
A very beloved uncle of mine (in fact the last remaining one) passed away under tragic circumstances last week, but I know he would think prayers were a folly. I nonetheless lit up the candles and did a tamashii shizume reihai for him, during which a cushion I had propped up fell over on me. I was happy to see the ghost of Grandpa Seth (my uncle's role in Troll 2 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_2) back from the dead.

How is your girl doing?