I'm glad to hear your daughter is doing okay, and that your parents were helpful to her. It struck me that you must have been quite busy the past month. Is your father doing better these days?
Regarding my uncle, my first divination told me that commemorating him would comfort his heart. I had a dream of him a few days ago. He said he was in "the Land of the Un-Dead." Quite happy! I think he's surprised that anything at all exists beyond death. He would like to be remembered.
In every interaction I've had with the recently deceased. what stood out was they have wanted people to pray for them or otherwise remember or try to contact them. I don't know how long it takes for them to readjust. In Japan, the first 49 days are considered important, with periodic chances to remember them at specified times after that such as Obon and first, third and other anniversaries.
I propose: "Bless Robert M. Ormsby, who died on March 21 at age 90, with the knowledge that he is remembered, especially as the ghost of Grandpa Seth." with this link: https://m.facebook.com/troll2grandpaseth
Thank you so much for this. I've contacted many of his cousins on my father's side of the family, but have heard back from so few, with most of my e-mails bouncing. We lost two of the most sociable ones shortly after the foxes got them, and then most of the rest just stopped communicating, at least with me. After losing his brother and sister ten years ago, Uncle Bob went totally silent. No response to Christmas cards. He did finally contact my mother last year, but none of us even knows precisely where he was. Somewhere around Seattle, probably Everett. As next of kin, Mom will be notified of such, but she never did care for him, and I don't expect to learn anything from her.
no subject
Regarding my uncle, my first divination told me that commemorating him would comfort his heart. I had a dream of him a few days ago. He said he was in "the Land of the Un-Dead." Quite happy! I think he's surprised that anything at all exists beyond death. He would like to be remembered.
In every interaction I've had with the recently deceased. what stood out was they have wanted people to pray for them or otherwise remember or try to contact them. I don't know how long it takes for them to readjust. In Japan, the first 49 days are considered important, with periodic chances to remember them at specified times after that such as Obon and first, third and other anniversaries.
I propose: "Bless Robert M. Ormsby, who died on March 21 at age 90, with the knowledge that he is remembered, especially as the ghost of Grandpa Seth." with this link: https://m.facebook.com/troll2grandpaseth
Thank you so much for this. I've contacted many of his cousins on my father's side of the family, but have heard back from so few, with most of my e-mails bouncing. We lost two of the most sociable ones shortly after the foxes got them, and then most of the rest just stopped communicating, at least with me. After losing his brother and sister ten years ago, Uncle Bob went totally silent. No response to Christmas cards. He did finally contact my mother last year, but none of us even knows precisely where he was. Somewhere around Seattle, probably Everett. As next of kin, Mom will be notified of such, but she never did care for him, and I don't expect to learn anything from her.