Congratulations, Jay! I will gladly pray for you all. I'll put it up in the form you gave it until I hear back from you, but what would you think of "May Liz and her baby be blessed and healthy during pregnancy, and may her husband Jay (sdi) have the grace and good humor to support his family even through times of stress and ill health"? Though I imagine you feel that stress and ill health are already baked into the cake, I see no reason to more thoroughly bake it that way. :-)