I am choosing to read what you've written as asking for a prayer for Robert, as well. If you didn't mean this, please let me know and I will remove that entry.

I have also added his children to the list under your sponsorship. Once the question of who their next primary guardian is gets settled, when you have a chance please confirm with them that these prayers are okay. I can add more members of your family to the list if you like, but first I shall need to get your confirmation regarding whether they have consented to prayer on their behalf first.

There is no rush on any of this; take care of your business first. I'm so sorry for your loss.